An indispensable guide to dating and mating the divorced man of your dreamsEntering a relationship with any man is daunting. But entering one with a divorced man means navigating a host of new and complicated problems. Will remnants of his past -- his guilt, the X, their children, the financial and legal fallout -- wreak havoc on your sanity and finances and sabotage your quest for love?Don't despair: You can overcome these challenges and enjoy a lasting and fulfilling relationship with the emotionally complex divorced man. In this reassuring book, Leslie Fram combines fundamental wisdom, guerrilla tactics, and humor to inform and empower the millions of women who are dating divorcés -- and the many who someday will.Invaluable and encouraging, How to Marry a Divorced Man offers all the tools you need to end the agonizing guesswork and pave the way to achieving love, intimacy, and, ultimately, marriage.Included are:Specific questions for gauging his emotional availability: Is he recycled goods or a keeper?Tips on how to deal with the X in your lives: minimize, minimize, minimize.Advice on coexisting peacefully, and even happily, with his children -- assuming thy acknowledge your presence.Practical information about the legal and financial implications of his divorce: Will your hard-earned paycheck go toward his kids' braces?Strategies for helping him shed his unresolved issues, rebuilding his capacity to love again -- and making him yours.Packed with exercises, quizzes, anecdotes, and plenty of humor, How to Marry a Divorced Man is the first book for women seeking to triumph over the challenges imposed by their men's prior lives.